How We Work With Care Teams
- No cost to the family, ever. A community may pay us a professional referral fee after a successful private-pay move-in. That is our only income from placements.
- No fee on public benefits. We accept no fee on any placement funded by Medicaid, MLTSS, MLTC, or Medicare, and we tell the family so in writing.
- No payments to referrers. We never pay, gift, or compensate any hospital employee, clinician, case manager, or social worker for a referral, and we will never ask. We know this is prohibited for social workers under NASW Code of Ethics standard 1.16.
- The family chooses. We show at least three licensed options when three exist, we tell the family which communities have a fee agreement with us, and we never pressure a timeline. Your patient's freedom to choose stays with your patient, consistent with 42 CFR 482.43.
- No protected health information. We do not ask for diagnoses, records, or insurance numbers. The family tells us what they want us to know.
- No lead selling. We do not sell, share, or trade family contact information with anyone.
- Medicaid families get a real handoff, not a dead end. New Jersey ADRC 1-877-222-3737. NY Connects 1-800-342-9871.
- We never contact a patient directly. The family calls us, or you send the family's contact with their permission.
- Licensed communities only. Every option comes from the NJ Department of Health or NY State Department of Health registry with its license number shown.
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Last updated September 20, 2026