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Sit With Us Parents

How this works

How we help

Sit with us first. Then pick the home.

You don't pay. There's no fee.

Book a free callCall (201) 686-8232Prepare a written request instead

Free for families on the current model

Families are not billed by us for placement guidance on the current model. Communities and agencies may pay a professional referral fee after a successful move in. We do not publish fee percentages, and we do not let a fee decide what we tell you.

We do not operate communities and we do not employ aides.

The four steps

  • Sit with the family. Care type, county or borough, budget band in your own words, and urgency. No invented numbers from us.
  • Shortlist licensed private-pay options that fit what you told us.
  • You get the written shortlist. You visit when ready, and we can come along if you ask.
  • Follow through after your visits. Move in is between your family and the community.

What we will never do

  • Invent a price, a waitlist, a bed count, or a review score.
  • Dump a directory of thousands of listings on you.
  • Ask for a Social Security number, a Medicare or Medicaid ID, or a diagnosis in a form.
  • Give medical, legal, or insurance advice.

Request a shortlist

Please do not type Social Security numbers, Medicare numbers, bank details, or medication lists.

What does your parent need help with? Check all that apply.
We never pass your details to a community or partner without asking you first and naming who receives them. We only contact you the way you choose. You don't pay. There's no fee.

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Frequently asked questions

Do families pay you?
You don't pay. There's no fee. A community may pay us a professional referral fee after a successful private-pay move in. We do not take a fee on Medicaid or Medicare funded placements.
How many options will we get?
As many as honestly fit what you told us. Sometimes that is one. We do not pad a list to look busy.
Do you rank communities?
No. We do not publish rankings or scores, and we do not sell placement in a list.

Ways to start

Sit with us first. Then pick the home.

Informational and referral only. Not medical, legal, or insurance advice. We do not operate communities or employ aides, and we do not publish community prices, waitlists, or bed counts. Verify licensing and current rates with each community or agency.

This site is not medical or financial advice. Confirm coverage with the plan or the state Medicaid office. Facility fees are set by the community.

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